On this solemn occasion, I find myself reflecting on the profound loss that struck our lives on the fateful day of April 27th, 2023.
What initially felt like an unimaginable nightmare has tragically become our reality.
Ever since then, I have struggled to find the right words to aptly capture the essence of our profound love, companionship and happy marriage that spanned a little over fifty five years ...but have not been able to find them.
You were a good example of an ideal wife: a trusted companion, a comforter, an adviser, a confidant, an epitome of humility, reliability and tact.
Under your nurturing care, our home became a sanctuary of peace and harmony. You gave me a peaceful home where parents, children, daughters and sons-in-law enjoyed a warm relationship. You embodied the age-old adage that behind every successful man stands a remarkable woman. The tranquil and loving atmosphere you fostered provided me with unwavering confidence and unwavering focus, enabling me to accomplish whatever success I achieved in my professional endeavours. In a world plagued by troubled marriages, I consider myself incredibly blessed to have been gifted with your unwavering love.
You had always prayed for a peaceful transition when it was time for you to return to the embrace of our Creator.
However, none of us anticipated that this moment would arrive so suddenly.
Your sudden departure has left shock, pain and disbelief in the minds of those of us you left behind.
Yet, we draw strength from our profound faith in the Almighty, who has empowered us to weather the storm that followed.
We take solace in the knowledge that you lived a life of fulfilment, positively impacting the lives of numerous young individuals who crossed your path. Your marriage, though cut short, was a testament to enduring love. Moreover, our children and daughter-in-law lovingly cared for you, a fact which you often acknowledged and as evidenced by your own last testimony.
Now, you have embarked on the final journey that awaits every mortal when their time has come.
Maluogo, my Darling Wife and the mother of our wonderful children, we bid you loving heartfelt farewell…Adieu!
May the Almighty God grant your soul eternal rest in His bosom in Jesus’ Name, Amen!
With heartfelt love and eternal gratitude
S.N. Abia
(Husband)